[力不从心 / 力不從心, lì bù cóng xīnㄌㄧˋ ㄅㄨˋ ㄘㄨㄥˊ ㄒㄧㄣ] less capable than desirable (成语 saw); not as strong as one would wish; the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak#20445
[三从四德 / 三從四德, sān cóng sì déㄙㄢ ㄘㄨㄥˊ ㄙˋ ㄉㄜˊ] Confucian moral injunctions for women - namely obey in turn three men father, husband and son, plus the four virtues of morality 德, physical charm 容, propriety in speech 言 and efficiency in needlework 功, See Also: 德, 容, 言, 功#68873