[逆来顺受 / 逆來順受, nì lái shùn shòuㄋㄧˋ ㄌㄞˊ ㄕㄨㄣˋ ㄕㄡˋ] to resign oneself to adversity (成语 saw); to grin and bear it; to submit meekly to insults, maltreatment, humiliation etc#54626
[倒行逆施, dào xíng nì shīㄉㄠˋ ㄒㄧㄥˊ ㄋㄧˋ ㄕ] to go against the tide (成语 saw); to do things all wrong; to try to turn back history; a perverse way of doing things#55672