[克己复礼 / 克己復禮, kè jǐ fù lǐㄎㄜˋ ㄐㄧˇ ㄈㄨˋ ㄌㄧˇ] restrain yourself and return to the rites (成语 saw, from Analects); to subdue self and observe proprieties; (any number of possible translations)#56832
[哀莫大于心死 / 哀莫大於心死, āi mò dà yú xīn sǐㄞ ㄇㄛˋ ㄉㄚˋ ㄩˊ ㄒㄧㄣ ㄙˇ] nothing sadder than a withered heart; (saying attributed to Confucius by Zhuangzi 莊子|庄子); other possible translations: no greater sorrow than a heart that never rejoices; The worst sorrow is not as bad as an uncaring heart.; Nothing is more wretched than, See Also: 莊子, 庄子#78670